Don't give sweetie pesticide-laden roses

Throughout the years, the fellas at the office have found the second week of February a bit perplexing. The guys are sincerely appreciative of their wives but never too confident in their ability to best express their devotion come Valentines Day, despite being barraged by pre-Valentine's Day ads for flowers, jewelry and lingerie. Typically, they default to a stop-over at a local florist on their way home to pick up an overpriced and under-fresh dozen roses. I've always felt it was my duty to encourage them; I like roses as much as the next gal and haven't met many women who don't love seeing their man walking through the door with fresh flowers.

But no more. This year, guys, you need to put a little more thought into those Valentine's Day gifts. Those roses, pretty as they are even after their long flight in from South America, aren't the ethical choice. The companies who grow Valentine's Day American Beauties among other rose varieties, are placing their employees in harm's way just so American women can feel loved. (Read this article.)

Roses from South America, the most common source for Valentine's Day roses, are laden with all kinds of dangerous pesticides. Picture your sweetie with her face thrust in the gentle blossoms as she inhales their fragrance. Did you know that 36 percent of the toxic chemicals applied to those lovelies in 2005 were listed as extremely or highly toxic by the World Health Organization? I didn't.

The other issue I have with imported roses is, well, they are imported. It takes a lot of jet fuel to fill American vases in February. Is this the best use of our resources?

So what's a cupid to do? I advocate for finding a gift that was produced locally. That leaves out diamonds, chocolate, tulips, cars, strawberries and champagne. But don't despair. Maybe you'll come upon a neighborhood boutique that offers handcrafted clothes, homemade jewelry, or a hand-knitted scarf. Or, consider visiting an antique store for a one-of-kind treasure that can find new life in your home. Finally, why not surprise your lovely by cooking dinner for her, and top the meal off with a wonderful bottle of wine made right here in the winter wonderland we call Minnesota!

However you choose to say "I love you," this Valentine's Day, make sure the sentiment extends around the world!